August, 2008

Identity Crisis: Are You or Will You Be a Senior?

An article in the local newspaper, "Director hopes to fight senior stigma" documents the declining attendance at a local senior center because it appears older people don't want to be labeled "seniors." Yaaaay! 

Here's the deal at the senior center: For just $25 a year you can partake of the following activities: poker, sewing, pool, ceramics, quilting, doll making, watercolor and bridge. All great stuff. I'd love to learn to play poker or shoot pool and even play bridge but here's the thing:  Frankly, I don't want to learn how to do anything in an age-segregated situation. 
Read more . . .

Joyce Shafer: Law of Attraction: I'm Good at the Small Stuff

Maybe you've attracted some nteresting items, people, or events into your life, but some of what you want is giving you a challenge. What's different?

If you've used the Law of Attraction, you probably have had some good results with some of the smaller things, but some of the bigger ones are presenting challenges to you. Have you asked yourself what's different? Read more . . .

Book Recommendation

While cruising around the bookstore a book just jumped off the shelf and hit me right between the eyes: "Staging Your Comeback: A Complete Beauty Revival for Women Over 45." After a quick perusal I knew I had to buy it.  Whatever your age, if you think you need a makeover or any kind of help, this book will give you EVERYTHING you need to get it done! Covers everything from body shapes to body shapers and everything in between. The before and after photos are incredible: Dowdy, dumpy, women transformed into gorgeous sexy ageless women. The photos show beyond a doubt that ANY woman of ANY age can look absolutely stunning. Among the jewels I found in the book is a recommendation for a product to help disguise thinning hair. It's available at Derm Match. I've tried it and it is indeed the best product of it's type that I've found so far.


New! Anti-aging Coaching Program

A limited number of spots are still available.


Mary Lloyd: The High Cost of Fear

We don’t talk much about the cost of fear, probably because it’s so expensive.  When we are afraid we don’t take essential risks and we put too much of our time and money into assuring our security.  That’s fool’s work.  Life turns on the unexpected.  No matter how hard we try, what comes is not going to be what we had in mind every time.  We will never be able to anticipate all the things that can go very wrong. Read more . . .

More Help Wanted . . .

Dorcas from Mombasa, Kenya wants help with:

"I am more interested in: women's attitude towards age, confidence as we age, skin care and how to look fabulous after 40, supplements and any other article that tackles age issues. I am 41and I would like to continue looking good now and even after 65". Read More . . .

Help Offered . . .

Thanks for continuing to send in your responses to the "Help Wanted" section. This month we have a helpful piece for anyone who has dull, frizzy, damaged hair. It is submitted by Ginger in Pennsylvania:

Pure camellia oil has worked WONDERS to improve the appearance--and no doubt, the overall health--of my dry, brittle, damaged hair!

To my great relief and delight, the daily application of a few drops of camellia oil has turned my nightmarish, problem hair into something that almost looks healthy and attractive again! Read More . . .

Links For August

Check it out: Human cannabis to improve skin care; Dr. Mercola's case against sun screens; the growth hormone controversy; elder abuse; help for peripheral neuropathy pain; the Fabulous After 40 website (you are gonna love this site); wrinkle filler comparisons and much, much more. Read More . . .

Videos

Sandy Dumont the Image Architect has some great new "how to" videos on UTube. Watch them and be inspired.

Helen Montgomery Drysdale I'm often asked "What is a Little Old Lady" and my reply is that it is a woman who is no longer productive and in the process of decline. It has nothing to do with appearance. Photographer Helen Mongtomery Drysdale is a perfect example of an older woman who definitely is NOT a little old lady. I hope our local TV station keeps the link live long enough for you to see it.

Shoes: What Women in New York are Wearing This video is from the Fabulous After 40 website. I maintain that what you put on your feet is a reflection of what's going on in your head. I could be wrong, of course. :-)

Keep'em coming

Many thanks to those who have sent in requests for help and to those who share solutions. Next month I hope to have an article about shoes. You will recall in a previous newsletter, Barbara Abernathy asked for help in finding shoes that are comfortable and stylish. Leslie Charles, co-author of Bless Your Stress says she knows everything there is to know about shoes and has promised to share her shoe expertise with us. At the moment she is tied down with other work, but I am willing to wait for however long it takes for her to find time. Leslie has a way with words that is unique. Stay tuned.

No More Little Old Ladies!

Yep, No More Little Old Ladies! should be ready by the end of August.


Coming Soon!


About Your Editor

Hi, I'm Barbara Morris. My subscribers know who I am but if you just stumbled across the newsletter, I'm the resident pharmacist, opinionated ageless diva and knower of all things dealing with aging. I'm Putting Old on Hold and if you stick with me, I'll help you do it too!

Why This Newsletter?

The purpose of this newsletter is to help mid-life and younger women understand that they have the power to manage their aging process. Even with unforeseen life events, women can determine 70 percent of the state of their mental and physical condition 25 or more years into the future. It's all about developing a vision, and having the will to plan and prepare.

This newsletter is also intended to inspire women of every age, to motivate and provide tools to aid the worthy quest of healthy agelessness.
 

Recommended Links for books and other good stuff

Staging Your Comeback: a Complete Beauty Revival for Women Over 45 by Christopher Hopkins

The Miracle of Bioidentical Hormones by Michael E. Platt, M.D.

Don't Stop the Career Clock- Rejecting the Myths of Aging for a New Way to Work in the 21st Century by Helen Harkness, Ph.D.

Bold Retirement- Mining Your Own Silver for a Rich Life by Mary Lloyd

I Don't Want to be Your Guru, but I Have Something to Say (New Edition) by Joyce Shafer

Write, Get Published and Promote by Joyce Shafer

Bless Your Stress by C. Leslie Charles and Mimi Donaldson

Lipitor- Thief of Memory by Duane Graveline, M.D. (See Dr. Graveline's website)

If you have a favorite book it can be included here. Please allow your name to be used as the person who made the recommendation.


"If you expect the best, you will be the best. Learn to use one of the most powerful laws in this world; change your mental habits to belief instead of disbelief. Learn to expect, not to doubt. In so doing, you bring everything into the realm of possibility."  -- Dr. Norman Vincent Peale

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